Organic unpaid sponsorship plug:#0252 2026-06-24 lemonmama.com By author Bumpkin Ruiner Cajole I.) Heard the word 'cajole' in 2025, on Jordan Peterson podcast. The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zw2DKjelPnuEYpydFlhgN Since then I, Bumpkin Ruiner, see people using cajoling paradigms in the world around me. And now with a word for it, now it's easier to recognize cajoling patterns. II.) Today thinking about cajoling paradigms again. Boston Faneuil Hall the performers getting white dads to line up for about 10 minutes straight and hold up 20 dollar bills to donate. (step by step). 1.) that is impressive, and 2.) it feels really bad and thus 3.) I don't like it, however 4.) it's not unreal. I saw the real line of real white guys/dads holding up real bills after / during a series of instructions, and performance, from the performers (or hustlers as it may be). Also, kudos to these hustlers, nice money funnel! #0164 - We Are Here To Build The Cleverest Money Funnel https://lemonmama.com/lemonmama/2025/0164%20build%20cleverest%20money%20funnel.html III.) So I looked up the word. cajole https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cajole https://ahdictionary.com/word/search.html?q=cajole "... 1. To persuade by flattery, pleading, ...insincere.... compilation synonyms: coerce, impel, cow, bully, embarrass, unnerve, ... Also this. So similar: "snow job" Actually heard it used in this movie https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elvis_(2022_film) Snow job definition here: https://ahdictionary.com/word/search.html?q=snow+job "... An effort to deceive, overwhelm, or persuade with..." Then found 'wheedle' which sounds like them. "wheedle" https://ahdictionary.com/word/search.html?q=wheedle "... through the use of flattery or guile:..." IV.) Other examples. Snooty Underdog would approach me to tell me to do something, and use a fake tone and flattery and smiling and humor, to pre-emptively get me to agree to do whatever it was. cajole. V.) Other colleagues, different companies, used manipulative tactics, tones, etc. to maneuver through work and through life. VI.) And it's impressive. I want to learn more about it, now I wasn't born yesterday. In past it was just so repulsive. However. Now I see it is a very very very human way to act and to interact and to live. And so I want to learn about it. I want to find different sub-types of cajoling. I want to identify dozens, and hundreds, of examples of people cajoling people. I, Bumpkin Ruiner, want to be able to recongize multiple types of cajoling, very quickly, and be able to navigate comfortably myself through situations involving cajoling and myself and the people around me. Foremost, now, I want to be able to identify and to neutralize cajoling effectively whenever I need to. I need to be more aware of the nuanced manipultions of my fellow humans. My thriving depends on it. VII.) Also by the way, cajole could be considered in the realm of bullshit and bullshitting. See also: https://lemonmama.com/lemonmama/2026/0203%20musty%20mustard%20calls%20bullshit.html https://lemonmama.com/lemonmama/2024/2024-01-16-2008_notnot-calling-people-out.html As guess what, bullshitting crosses over a lot with cajoling, they could be the same thing in many contexts. In conclusion, these have been musings on cajoling, snow jobs, wheedling, bullshitting, and how to navigate these ongoing as natural human being. ~
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